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Dear Uncle Ralph,
My boyfriend have a good job but every time I
ask him to help my will my rent he tell me no. But all the time he
want me to give he money. I don't know what to.
Marry
Dear Marry,
You didn't tell me if he lived with you or not.
So, let's assume he does. This would be the classic "Free Milk And Cow"
scenario. The question is, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for
free?' If this is the case then kick him out. As long as he
has no obligations, he can 'boff' you for free. Free rent, free sex,
free food. -whatever. The down side is that he will dump you.
It's just a matter of time.
But now, let's say he's not living with you. If he has
his own place and ain't living with you, then you have no right to expect any
cash out of him. It doesn't matter if he has a good job or not. Not
even if he was the richest man on earth. He's your boyfriend - not
your husband. He has no obligations to you other then not dating anyone
else.
So you have to figure this out. If he's living with you
and not paying rent then you should kick him out before he dumps you anyhow.
If he's just you boyfriend, marry the dude and live happily ever after but don't
expect him to pay your rent until you do.
Uncle Ralph
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